The Belonging–Becoming Assessment
Cultures create belonging conditions. Those conditions produce identity states. This instrument locates where you currently stand — and gives you a way to think about why.
Before you begin:
There are 16 statements, each rated 1–5. It takes about 10 minutes. Anchor your responses in your current primary professional context — your department, unit, or team as it exists right now.
Your responses are not collected in any way that identifies you. Answers may be logged anonymously — with no demographic information and no way to connect them back to you — to help validate and improve this instrument over time.
Answer each statement
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Going Deeper — Belonging and Fitting-In Behavior
Trustworthy belonging and guarded behavior sit at opposite poles — when belonging feels secure, we’d generally expect less guarded, more authentic behavior; when belonging feels contingent, we’d generally expect more self-censoring, or “fitting in” behavior.
About This Instrument
This instrument produces a score for “Belonging” and one for “Becoming” that together determine the quadrant placement above. “Becoming” is likely the more intuitive of these axes. It describes what identity is actively doing right now — expanding into new challenges and roles, or consolidating around established identities. Belonging describes a property of your environment. In environments where individuals are valued primarily for their productivity, belonging doesn’t tend to feel secure. We refer to this as “Contingent Belonging.” By contrast, environments that communicate that belonging precedes productivity communicate a sense of belonging that can be relied on. We refer to this as “Trustworthy Belonging.”
These environments tend to produce a corresponding internal state for the person living in them. In “Contingent Belonging” environments, individuals experience “Identity Vigilance”. In “Trustworthy Belonging” environments, individuals experience “Identity Security.” Identity Vigilance tends to look like: monitoring how you’re coming across before you speak, editing yourself preemptively, treating acceptance as something to keep re-earning rather than something you can rely on. Identity Security tends to look like: speaking or acting without rehearsing it first, assuming good faith rather than testing for it, and expecting that disagreement won’t cost you your place here. This matters enormously, since Identity Vigilance takes energy that could otherwise be invested in an array of valuable ways.
This is a descriptive tool, not a prescriptive one. It reports how you’re currently responding to the environment you’re in, not a verdict on who you are. Change the environment — a new role, team, or institution — and the effects on identity will change, producing a different score. A result here says something true about the current fit between you and where you stand right now, not something fixed about you.